Why Nobody Understands What You’re Saying

Have you ever said a word confidently, only to notice the person listening looked confused, or worse, repeated it back to you differently? This happens to many Nigerian students, graduates, and professionals, not because their English is poor, but because certain English sounds simply do not exist in most Nigerian languages. The good news is that pronunciation is not something you are born with. It is a physical skill, like learning to ride a bicycle, and it can be corrected with the right practice. In this guide, I will show you exactly which sounds cause the most problems for Nigerian speakers, how to position your mouth and tongue correctly, and how to practise until clear pronunciation becomes natural.
Quick Promise: In my experience teaching students, pronunciation improves fastest when you understand exactly where your tongue and lips should be, not just when you hear a word repeated. This guide gives you that missing piece.
Why Pronunciation Is Difficult for Nigerian Speakers
Many Nigerian students struggle with pronunciation for reasons that have nothing to do with intelligence or effort.
Mother tongue interference: Nigerian languages often do not contain certain English sounds, such as “th,” so your mouth was never trained to produce them growing up.
Spelling-based pronunciation: English spelling is not always a reliable guide to pronunciation. Many students pronounce words exactly as they are spelled, which leads to mistakes, since English has many silent letters and irregular sounds.
Limited exposure to native speech patterns: Over the years, I have noticed that students who read a lot but listen less often struggle more with pronunciation, since pronunciation is trained by the ear as much as by the eye.
Remember: You are not alone if you struggle with this. Even advanced English speakers occasionally mispronounce unfamiliar words. The goal is clear communication, not a perfect foreign accent.
Sound Group 1: The “TH” Sound
This is one mistake I see almost every day. Words like “this,” “think,” “that,” and “three” often become “dis,” “tink,” “dat,” and “tree” in Nigerian English. This happens because most Nigerian languages do not have the “th” sound.
How to Produce the “TH” Sound Correctly
- Place the tip of your tongue lightly between your upper and lower front teeth.
- Push a small amount of air out gently while your tongue is in that position.
- For words like “this” and “that,” your voice should vibrate as the air passes (this is called a voiced “th”).
- For words like “think” and “three,” there is no vibration, just a soft breath of air (this is called an unvoiced “th”).
Common Mistake Correct Pronunciation
“Dis is my friend” “This is my friend” (tongue between teeth)
“I tink so” “I think so” (tongue between teeth, soft air)
“Dat man is my oga” “That man is my boss” (tongue between teeth)
Quick Drill: The “TH” Sound
Practise these sentences slowly, focusing on tongue placement before speed:
- “I think that this is the best thing to do.”
- “Three thieves thought thoroughly before their theft.”
Sound Group 2: The “V” and “F” Sounds
Many Nigerian speakers, especially those whose first language does not distinguish clearly between “v” and “f,” pronounce both sounds the same way. “Very” becomes “fery,” and “video” becomes “fideo.”
How to Tell Them Apart
“V” sound: Your top teeth touch your bottom lip, and your voice vibrates. Try saying “vvvv” and feel the buzzing in your throat.
“F” sound: Your top teeth touch your bottom lip in the same position, but there is no vibration, just a soft breath of air, like blowing out a candle gently.
Here’s an easy way to remember it: place your hand lightly on your throat while saying both sounds. If you feel vibration, it is “v.” If you feel only air with no vibration, it is “f.”
Quick Drill: “V” and “F”
“Five very fine friends visited the village.”
Sound Group 3: Silent Letters
English has many silent letters that do not follow Nigerian spelling instincts. This mistake is extremely common, even among university graduates writing job applications and reading their own CVs aloud.
Word Silent Letter Correct Pronunciation
Comfortable: Second “or” softens. COMF-ta-ble (not com-for-ta-ble)
Subtle: Silent “b”. SUT-tul
Wednesday: Silent “d”. WENZ-day
Receipt: Silent “p”. ri-SEET
Island: Silent “s”. EYE-land
My advice is simple: whenever you meet a new word, do not assume the spelling tells you exactly how to say it. Check the pronunciation, especially for words you plan to use in an interview or presentation.
Sound Group 4: Word Stress
Word stress means emphasising the correct syllable in a word. Getting this wrong does not just sound odd, it can completely confuse the listener, since some words change meaning depending on which syllable is stressed.
Word As a Noun As a Verb
Present: PRE-sent (a gift). pre-SENT (to give or show)
Record: RE-cord (a document). re-CORD (to write down or capture)
Project: PRO-ject (a task). pro-JECT (to estimate or throw forward)
One habit that will transform your English is listening to how stress falls naturally in longer words. For example, “necessary” is stressed as “NEC-e-ssary,” not spread evenly across all syllables the way many Nigerian speakers say it.
Sound Group 5: Sentence Stress and Rhythm
Beyond individual words, English sentences also carry natural rhythm, where certain words are stressed and others are said more quickly and softly. Many Nigerian speakers pronounce every word in a sentence with equal weight, which can sound mechanical.
Example: “I WANT to GO to the MARKET” (natural stress on key words) sounds more fluent than “I want to go to the market” said with every word given equal, flat emphasis.
The correct way to develop this naturally is by listening closely to native speakers in films, podcasts, or the news, and noticing which words they stress and which they say quickly and softly.
Pronunciation for Specific Nigerian Situations
Oral English for WAEC and NECO
Slow down. Many students lose marks not because they do not know the correct sound, but because they rush through words out of nervousness. Pronounce each word clearly and confidently, even if it takes a second longer.
Job Interviews
Interviewers are listening for clarity, not a foreign accent. Focus on pronouncing your own name, your course of study, and key skills correctly and confidently, since these are the words you will say most often during the interview.
Church and Public Reading
When reading scripture or announcements aloud, focus on word stress and pacing. Reading too quickly often causes silent letters and difficult sounds to be skipped entirely, which reduces clarity for the whole congregation.
Office and Customer Service Communication
In customer service roles, unclear pronunciation of numbers, names, and addresses can cause real problems. Practise saying numbers, email addresses, and company names slowly and clearly, since these are commonly misheard over the phone.
Common Pronunciation Confusions
Confused Words Difference
Sheep vs Ship: “Sheep” has a longer “ee” vowel sound. “Ship” has a shorter “i” sound.
Live vs Leave: “Live” has a short “i” sound (as in “sit”). “Leave” has a longer “ee” sound (as in “seat”).
Bear vs Beer: “Bear” rhymes with “hair.” “Beer” rhymes with “here.”
Daily Pronunciation Practice Exercises
The Mirror Drill: Practise the “th,” “v,” and “f” sounds in front of a mirror for five minutes daily, watching your tongue and lip position.
The Shadowing Exercise: Play a short video or audio clip of a native English speaker, pause every sentence, and repeat exactly what you heard, copying their rhythm and stress.
The Recording Habit: Record yourself reading a short paragraph aloud, then listen back and compare your pronunciation to the recording of a native speaker reading the same text.
The Word-Stress Notebook: Whenever you learn a new word, write it down with the stressed syllable in capital letters, so you always remember where the emphasis falls.
Quick Revision Summary
- Practise the “th” sound with your tongue lightly between your teeth, not replacing it with “d” or “t.”
- Distinguish “v” and “f” by checking for vibration in your throat.
- Learn silent letters individually, since spelling does not always match pronunciation.
- Pay attention to word stress, especially in words that change meaning based on stress, like “present” and “record.”
- Practise sentence rhythm by listening closely to native speakers, not just reading text silently.
Frequently Asked Questions
Why do I still pronounce words wrongly even after learning the correct way?
This is extremely common in Nigeria, since pronunciation is a physical habit built over many years. Correcting it takes repeated practice, not just one correction. Practise this every day, focusing on one sound at a time.
Do I need to sound like a British or American speaker?
No. The goal is clear, understandable communication, not imitating a foreign accent. Many respected professionals speak English clearly with a Nigerian accent while remaining perfectly understood.</p>
How can I improve my pronunciation for oral English exams?
Practise reading passages aloud slowly, focusing especially on the “th” sound, silent letters, and word stress, since these are commonly tested areas in WAEC and NECO oral English.
Why do I understand spoken English well but struggle to pronounce words myself?
Understanding and producing sounds are different skills. Listening trains your ear, but speaking trains your mouth and tongue muscles. Both need separate, consistent practice.
How long does it take to improve pronunciation noticeably?
With daily practice of ten to fifteen minutes, most learners notice real improvement within three to four weeks, especially with sounds like “th” and word stress.
Conclusion: Clear Speech Builds Real Confidence
If you want to improve your English faster, don’t try to fix every sound at once. Focus on one sound group this week, such as the “th” sound, and practise it daily using the mirror drill. Small daily practice brings big improvement, and with regular practice, you will improve steadily until clear pronunciation becomes natural, in your exams, your interviews, your workplace, and your everyday conversations.
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Reference: Cambridge English emphasises that clear pronunciation, built through consistent practice of individual sounds and word stress, is central to effective spoken communication.
Written by Tr. Edidiong Sunday
About Author
Edidiong Sunday is an English educator, communication specialist, and the founder of ExamGuideNG. She holds a Diploma in Mass Communication and a B.Ed. in English Education from the University of Uyo, and is currently pursuing a Master’s degree in English Education. With years of experience teaching English Language, Diction, and Public Speaking in reputable schools in Uyo, she creates practical, accurate, and learner-focused content to help students, job seekers, and professionals improve their English skills. Edidiong also runs a JAMB English tutorial centre in Uyo and has professional experience in journalism, broadcasting, and public speaking. Every article she publishes is guided by a commitment to clarity, accuracy, and helping learners achieve lasting success in academics, examinations, and everyday communication.